Supporting your child with anger

Your child’s challenging behaviour is NOT a reflection of bad parenting.

Your child’s challenging behaviour is a reflection of a struggle they are experiencing.

Lets move from feeling helpless to feeling empowered.

Meltdowns!

De-Escalation Strategies

  • Validate their feelings, but not their actions.

  • Respect personal space, do not touch, hug, or pick them up, feeling trapped can make it worse.

  • Get on your child’s level, sit or kneel.

  • Avoid saying no (I’m NOT saying you should say YES).

  • Stop talking.

  • Be aware of your body language and facial expressions, staying relaxed physically is a big part of de-escalation.


When rethinking and reflecting on how we can support our child with their anger happens.

Things will start to click.


6 reasons hugs can helps kids when they have BIG FEELINGS

1. Hugging releases oxytocins or the love hormone which is physiologically.

2. Children respond better to LOVE than PUNISHMENT.

3. A hug can regulate a child who has a dysregulated nervous system.

4. If you breathe calmly while hugging, your child is likely to co-regulate with you.

5. Human touch is essential to brain growth.

6. Hugs benefit both the hugger AND receiver.

HUGS!